she, her, etc. (for any one or all of us).

plural, and may use both “we” and “i”. it’s complicated, but “i” is most often by the girl amongst us who does a lot of the feeling emotions and other stuff, as she is most often “at front”.

more about that

that girl (we will call her tani) runs much of the show, and does a lot of the feeling and perception, but a lot less thinking. while most thoughts posted are contributed to by multiple of us, tani’s thoughts in particular are again, more emotional. examples: “we love the pretty views” and “i wanna snuggle our plushies so badly”. the former could be shared across many of us, but for the latter, many of us do not do that direct decision making to begin with; really only tani does.

still, others of us may use “i” too!

all pictures photographed by us and published here are under the CC0 1.0 public domain dedication unless otherwise noted

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Cake day: January 1st, 2026
  • kivihiili@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•fuck it, just paste your clipboard in the commentsEnglish
    41·
    1 month ago

    ctrl+v: (from a previous post)

    i think it would be more accurate so say that, often, asexuality yearns for the absence of sex, rather than being defined by it.

    middle click: (from a message i sent to my friend on steam i think? no idea how middle click clipboard actually works honestly)

    o meowmaxxing is the PERFECT word
    holy shit i just realized i went to the grocery store wearing a fucking COLLAR
    i am goin gto
    di e
    goodness gracious me
    [2/22/2026, 5:40 PM] [my username]:
    wait i mig

    (if you want a conclusion to the story, i realized that my coat would have completely obscured it and no embarrassment was to be had lol)

  • kivihiili@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•*Permanently Deleted*English
    101·
    1 month ago

    cw: talks a fair bit about sex and my perspective on it

    i sometimes experience a problem myself similar in vain to this.

    as much as i enjoy snuggling and affection and even more “smutty” stuff like breasts, i do not enjoy the prospect of sex. perhaps its some form of gender dysphoria, perhaps its something else, honestly not super sure. all i know is i don’t find sex appealing!! but i’m also not vehemently against it or disgusted by it. i think this article puts it really well:

    i think it would be more accurate so [sic] say that, often, asexuality yearns for the absence of sex, rather than being defined by it.

    with regards to nudity: the only times it actually makes me feel a little uncomfortable is when it is set in a sexual/romantic setting. if someone is at the lake with not as much as a patch of covering on them and just swimming around and having fun, i don’t mind at all. so long as its not sexualized i think nudity is perfectly okay! but, if it is brought into any romance through even just caressing the other’s hair or whatever, it puts me off a little.

    again, i do like this sort of affection, i do absolutely find people attractive. i just enjoy being able to be affectionate or observe it without having to partake in/bear witness to sex!

    however, a marginally decent number of people are seemingly unable to comprehend any this. quite often some people get incredibly confused no matter how much i try and explain this to them. i’ve never really been ridiculed for it thankfully, but it just does not seem to compute in some people’s heads that i am not fond of sex!!

    that aside, this is thankfully one of the better places i’ve seen on the internet, and i’m glad to be here!! regardless i provide you with my best wishes when it comes to fending off the demands of the internet, and my apologies for the ramble :D