

it’s actually kind of the opposite. the notion that we’re attracted to abusers is something people say to blame people who get abused. it even has a shitty prevalence in psychology.
If you’re struggling this this, you should watch [this] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S_I8G1BWdLM) video by Theramintrees where he debunks it
woahwoahwoahwoah chill, dude. I misunderstood which take you were referring to, I wasn’t squaring up to write paragraphs at you in a comment section.