• Schadrach@lemmy.sdf.org
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    16 hours ago

    If i invite someone out to dinner I pay. If someone invites me out to dinner I expect them to pay.

    expect the man to pay

    …they’re the same picture. Seriously, given the general dynamics of how straight dating actually ends up working most of the time IRL, these are basically equivalent statements, because the man is also generally expected to be the one to do the asking.