• ozymandias@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    12 hours ago

    sometimes women are especially mean and insulting when rejecting men…
    i don’t think it’s super common, and it’s a natural response to all of the men trying to be “players”….
    but i think it comes from there, and then deciding all women are exactly the same as the worst experience they’ve ever had with a woman.

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      8 hours ago

      I sort of get that. But after what I went through with my ex wife, rejection seems so tiny compared to what a bad relationship can put you through.

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        5 hours ago

        a lot of misandry comes from bad relationships too…
        it’s similar to the racist mindset… they have a bad experience with one <whatever perceived race here>, and then all of “them” are bad….